So as I mentioned earlier working mum’s life sucks. Double and triple. In fact some time I wish I would have never become such a person. I cannot imagine living without this little magic in my life anymore but sometimes I think I really did not konw what I was stepping into. If I had known I would have never apply for this.
So because I am working only 3 days a week and because we have to pay for childcare we cannot even think about little luxurious things in life such going for holiday or have a nice meal in a nice restaurant only two of us.
However I got a very nice job offer of working 8-10 hours extra a week and earning the same like I earn right now in 3 days. I was very pleased as this opportunity just fell into my lap and I thought why not I could do both! As I want to keep my current role but I still would like to make good money too. Well it took many weeks to get from an initial job opportunity to an actual contract but today it all has gone as my company I am working for informed me that due to changes in my contract I cannot take any other position with any other company. In other word I quit or let the opportunity go. Well at least they offered a bit more salary and the opportunity to work more after working hours but I do not even know how much more. Because I am super coward person I kept my current position and just sent the email to the other company with the decent payment saying I cannot take that role.
I was in pieces. Am I really an idiot? I could have even quit and work less. Why I did not do that????
I felt really tired after that call. I spent half night awake as our little princess got a food poisoning and was throwing up 6 times at night. I had to keep her home and work at the same time. My hubby was around to look after her but if Joy knows I am around she wants to be with me. At this point I am still number one in her life.
The only nice thing I had today is bathing her. She was playing with her little pots and I joined in. We were pouring water from one pot to the other. I could continue sitting there forever. Then we went into the bedroom, read stories had a bit of struggle to actually put her in bed but then she fell asleep and I left the room. And as I was closing the door reality hit me again. My mind started spinning again. Cook lunch for next day, write email to nice company that I cant take the position, send emails at work because I need to prove myself, etc, etc. I am just tired. I cant work more today. I realised our bedroom where our little magic is sleeping is my safe place. In the shadow of that room I am safe and out of the world and out of all its hassles. I am free there. I do not have disturbing thoughts. I do not have thoughts as baby simply clears out everything by being so active. She acquires all my attention so I do not have time to think of anything stupid. She is my saver even if sometimes I feel that this whole baby situation makes me a robot or a slave. This baby girl sets me free. As long as I am with her.